I was praying and I was offering up a request to God that I have done for years. To cause me to be able to discern what is of Him and what was not.  He quickened to me Hebrews 5:14, which says "But strong meat belongeth to them that are of full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil."  He emphasized, "by the reason of use."  He made it plain to me that the trials that I'm trying to always get rid of, the ones I'm supposed to count all joy, are my answer to my prayers all these years.  And then this scripture came to my attention, that Jesus learned obedience by the things He suffered.  So that once we come out of an area of deception, we are strong in truth in that area.  So "let us go on unto perfection" or spiritual maturity.  Hebrews 6:1

What can I say, all my faithful praying for discernment, He is faithful in His answering.